Ego is the Enemy

Mariana Yañez
Oct 23, 2020

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The best 10 points about the ego inspired in the book “Ego is the enemy” by Rayan Holiday

  1. Only when free of ego, can one perform
  • Ego prevents us from getting what we want.
  • Self-absorption, blocking (Ego → It’s all about me → irrational).
  • Ego tell us we’re special but we need to say objective grounded to unreality.

2. Stop creating stories

  • Delusion (fantasizing/ creating stories).
  • “Be willing to know that you don't know.”

3. End addiction to approval seeking

  • “Accept not everyone will like you.”
  • Don't try to be always the main point in the conversation.

4. Always be a student

  • Humbles the ego (self-assessment).

5. Don’t be passionate

  • If we don't know hot to handle it it can harm our straight, lose more than winning.
  • You cant see the obvious (You get blind).

6. Let the trauma seep in

  • Embrace critics, endure it, ignore the noise.

7. Play the long game and serve others

  • Life lessons, help to build relations, keep us grounded to reality.

8. Get out of your own head

  • Stop living in the fiction and start living the reality.

9. Stop the pride and work

  • Having an idea is not enough to cultivated
  • Don’t lose your head.
  • Accept negative feedback.
  • Work for ambition not ego.

10. Balance is humility

  • Honestly analyze ourselves.

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Mariana Yañez
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